Privacy

Privacy

Last updated: April 25, 2026

ToSomeone is designed to be used without an account. The public experience centers on first names, nicknames, and message text rather than profiles or follower graphs.

What privacy means here

ToSomeone is public, but it is designed not to revolve around verified identity. A message may feel personal without proving who wrote it or who it was meant for. Privacy depends on both the site design and the details a writer chooses to include.

What we collect

  • the message you submit
  • the name or nickname you address it to
  • category, status, reason, and template choices
  • timestamps
  • basic technical data needed to run, moderate, and protect the site

What we do not ask for

  • your real name
  • your email
  • your phone number
  • your address
  • an account or profile

Public messages

Submitted messages may be public. Do not submit full names, phone numbers, addresses, handles, schools, workplaces, private quotes, or other details that could identify a real person.

Local storage

The site may use local storage in your browser to remember interface choices or drafts on your device. Browser storage does not change the public nature of messages that are actually submitted to the site.

Service providers

We use hosting, analytics, and database providers to operate and protect the site. Those services help with delivery, storage, and moderation workflows.

No selling

We do not sell submitted messages as personal data.

What ToSomeone cannot prove

A searchable first name, a familiar story, or an emotionally specific message can create resonance, but it cannot verify writer identity, recipient identity, or the reality of a relationship. Readers should treat matches as reflection, not evidence.

Removal

Use the removal request page if content includes identifying information, creates a safety concern, or should be reviewed.