Safety
Safety
ToSomeone is for anonymous messages, not exposure. The archive is meant to hold emotional writing without turning real people into targets or turning familiar messages into identity proof.
Keep it anonymous
Do not post full names, addresses, phone numbers, emails, handles, workplaces, school names, or anything that could identify someone.
Resonance is not proof
A message can feel exactly like your life and still remain anonymous, incomplete, or meant for someone else. Do not use ToSomeone to identify a writer, expose a recipient, confront an ex, or prove that a specific person is thinking about you.
No harm or exposure
Do not use ToSomeone to threaten, expose, shame, harass, dox, or punish someone through anonymous posting.
Moderation
Messages may be hidden or removed if they break these rules, create a privacy concern, raise a safety issue, misuse copyrighted material, or combine enough details to identify a real person.
What this page is for
This page explains how ToSomeone tries to keep the archive safe and anonymous. It cannot guarantee that every reader will interpret every message correctly, so the safest habit is still to remove identifying details before you post and to use the review paths when something crosses a line.